A holiday bonus is a common tradition in the domestic staffing industry, but it is not necessarily an obligation. For employers, it can be a meaningful way to recognise a staff member’s hard work, loyalty, and contribution to the household throughout the year.
We generally recommend offering a bonus to employees who are performing well and whom you intend to retain long-term. Consistency is important, particularly for household staff who have come to view the bonus as part of their annual compensation. If you are unable to match the amount given in previous years, it is worth having an open conversation with the employee rather than allowing them to wonder whether the change reflects their performance.
For the same reason, bonuses should be considered carefully when an employee is not meeting expectations. If there are ongoing concerns about a staff member’s performance, it is better to address them directly and honestly. Giving a bonus to someone you do not intend to retain can send a confusing message and may create an expectation of continued employment.
And, of course, if a bonus or other form of compensation has been included in an employment contract, those terms should be honoured.
How much should I give?
There is no single standard amount, and the appropriate bonus will depend on factors such as performance, length of service, and the nature of the role. We generally recommend between one and four weeks’ pay, with two weeks’ pay being a common benchmark for domestic staff.
For a long-serving employee who has consistently gone above and beyond, a more generous bonus may be appropriate. Equally, someone who has only recently joined the household may receive a smaller amount.
Should I give other gifts in addition to a bonus?
A thoughtful gift can be a lovely addition to a financial bonus, particularly when it reflects the employee’s relationship with the family. For nannies, for example, a framed photograph with the children or handmade cards from the children themselves can be especially meaningful.
Additional paid time off can also be a generous gesture. Offering an extra day or two around the holidays, or time to recharge in the new year, can be a valuable way to show appreciation while recognising the demands of household work.
I’m unable to give a bonus this year. What should I do?
If financial circumstances mean that you cannot offer a bonus, or cannot match the amount given in previous years, communicate this as early and openly as possible. Employees may otherwise assume that a smaller bonus, or the absence of one altogether, reflects their performance.
A straightforward conversation can help avoid unnecessary uncertainty and make clear that the decision is financial rather than a reflection of their work.
What are the tax implications of providing a bonus?
In the United States, holiday and annual performance bonuses are generally considered taxable income. According to GTM Payroll Services, because the bonus is provided by the employer as compensation, it does not qualify as a tax-free gift in the eyes of the IRS. Employers should account for the appropriate payroll taxes and withholding when providing a bonus and consult their payroll provider or tax adviser for guidance specific to their circumstances.



